As somebody with curly hair myself I understand the plight of the curly haired ‘first hand’. How often have you heard a curly haired friend complaining that their hair has been cut too short or cut into a silly shape? Is it really so difficult to find a hairstylist who truly understands how to deal with natural curls?
My top tip for finding a stylist remains the same…
Go by recommendation. If you see someone out and about who has nice curly hair, why not ask them who cuts it? I know it can be a bit embarrassing but most people won’t be outrageously offended if you tell them that you like their haircut. If confronting total strangers freaks you out, maybe just stick to harassing hospitality staff and retail workers with cool hair instead! If that approach fails, then another logical solution might be to look for a stylist who has natural curls themselves… Ok, so having curly hair doesn’t necessarily make them an expert in cutting it, but chances are that they have probably faced the same issues with their own hair and should understand the inherent fear of the curly haired when it comes to haircut hell. In contrast curly hair heaven is all about getting the cutting techniques right and working with the natural springiness and growth patterns.
shrinkage, weight issues & understanding how it can go so wrong…
An important (if obvious) point about curly hair is that a lot of length can be lost in the curl. Depending on the tightness of your curls, even a shoulder-length style can mean growing your hair to the middle of your back when pulled out straight. Then consider that hair is usually cut wet and the weight of moisture in the hair tends to relax the curl. Add to that the basic cutting technique of pulling each section out straight before cutting, and its hardly surprising that curly hair can end up looking a lot shorter than intended or unpredictably shaped after being badly cut. If that’s not enough to worry about, the other issue is that as your hair gets longer it also becomes physically heavier (more hair = more mass) A lot of curly haired people find that the longer their hair is, the easier it is to manage. Many people tell me that their curly hair tends to ‘grow out before it grows down’ – Waiting for the stage when your hair is long and heavy enough to hang well without a lot of work can be the worst part of growing-out curly hair. So when an inexperienced stylist accidentally cuts your hair a tiny bit shorter than the point where the weight of your length helps to control the curl, it can create too much volume and make the hair much more difficult to manage. Not to mention being very, very frustrating! – The same goes for layers as well as overall length… So what’s the solution?
Tips to help you towards haircut heaven…
In an ideal world you shouldn’t have to worry, but the truth is that a lot of stylists are still clueless when it comes to curls. If you go to a top salon you should be guaranteed a good cut but that’s not always an option depending on your budget or where you live. So its often worth politely reminding your chosen stylist that your hair can spring up and look a lot shorter than it really is. A good stylist will be cautious and watch carefully as the hair reacts to the reduction of length and weight. It’s always better to cut the hair shorter in stages than dive in and underestimate the spring effect – So another thing you can do is insist on having a smaller amount cut off of a single section first, to test how short it really looks before committing to having more taken off. You might find that you only need to have half of the amount cut that you originally intended to achieve the desired look.
Tips for stylists…
Its often better to work on slightly damp rather than soaking wet hair, as you need to see how the hair moves and reacts naturally as the haircut takes shape. Avoid razor-cutting and excessive slicing techniques which can create frizziness, instead try freehand and point cutting techniques where additional texture is required. Remember to work with, rather than against the natural growth patterns of curly hair to create shape and form. Working in this way creates much more attractive looks for curly hair of all lengths that can be surprisingly easy to manage.
Going drastic…
Curly haired people often notice that their hair looks best when its really long, but super-long hair can also be a pain if it just doesn’t fit your personality or lifestyle. A lot of women admit that they would chop it all off if they had straight hair but think that curly hair automatically looks terrible when its cut short. The truth is that reducing your ringlets to a head-hugging crop can look amazing! Depending of course on the skill of the person cutting your hair to give you something that really fits your features and face-shape. Although there are lots of mid-length looks that can suit curly hair if well cut, undoubtedly one of the lowest maintenance and most liberating looks is still the crop. If you do get the urge to cut it all off, the best advice is to be brave and go as short as it takes to eliminate all of the excess volume, so that your natural curls provide attractive texture and subtle root-lift rather than bulk. However, it’s worth thinking carefully before you chop, as curly hair needs to grow a lot further to achieve the same length look as straight hair, cropping it off is a serious commitment when it comes to the time it takes to grow it out long again.
Growing it out…
Ok, so if short curls only look uber-cool when they’re super-short what happens when it starts to grow? Well, longer short-hair looks can also work really well on curly hair, but the advice is the same… Be brave! As a general rule the stronger the shape the more definition occurs and the better it looks. For example if you let the top sections grow out, try going super-short through the back and sides ‘a la’ US pop-rocker Rihanna. Some people use straighteners to get through the inevitable awkward phases. This is a great solution, but try to keep heat settings low and use plenty of heat protection products to minimise potential damage. With practice even daily straightening can become a breeze. Just try not to get sucked in to hair straightening paranoia! It doesn’t have to be pin-straight 100% of the time. Running medium hot-straighteners over corkscrew curls will add smoothness, reduce frizz, relax the curl and will develop a soft wave over the next few hours that should hold for up to a couple of days between shampoos. Add a little light serum to ward off environmental humidity and it’s all under control.
Beat the frizz – Haircare tips for colossal curls…
Whether your curls are long or short, you will have almost certainly been a victim of the ‘frizz monster’… You know, the invisible beast who sits behind you on public transport or at the office slowly turning your glossy manicured ringlets into cotton-wool. How does Carrie Bradshaw cope!? Thankfully there are a few product related tips & tricks that you can try…
Let’s start with shampooing…
While moisture in the air can make frizz worse, moisturizing in the cosmetic sense is a good idea as high-quality moisturizing shampoos tend to contain water-soluble silicons that add weight and shine to curls, and something called panthenol (provitamin B5) which is believed to improve the smoothness and suppleness of curly hair – making it more manageable.
Condition, condition, condition…
Specialist conditioning masks are great, but you can also use your regular conditioner as a mask – Try shampooing your hair when you first step into the shower, apply loads of conditioner, comb through and just let it sit there while you get on with everything else. (The steamy environment will help the conditioners to penetrate your hair – unless cold showers are your thing!) Finally, just when you’ve almost forgotten that you still have to rinse your locks out, that’s the time to take it off… Manufactures state anything from 3-5mins to 20mins, so remember to check individual product labels for guidance.
After shower…
Moisturizing mist sprays are great for longer locks that tangle easily and leave-in conditioning creams like Paul Mitchell’s ‘The Conditioner’ are great for adding weight and definition to curls without causing greasiness. If your long curls are particularly prone to frizzing at the ends, try a lightweight serum – Sometimes marketed as an anti-frizz aid, split-end ‘cure’, or as a heat-protection product – runny serums are usually almost pure water soluble silicones which coat the hair to help prevent and disguise split ends, reduce frizz, protect against environmental damage and add gloss – For super-glossy ringlets add a small amount to damp curls (mid-lengths & ends) and allow to dry naturally, you can even add some more when your hair is completely dry, separating and arranging individual ringlets with your fingers.
The physiology that makes hair curly can also make curly hair a bit more prone to breakage than other hair types. A general rule for all hair types is to comb rather than brush the hair when it’s wet to avoid unnecessary breakage, and this is particularly important for curly hair. Go for a wide-tooth comb and remember to check for sharp edges and any plastic-molding errors that might snag or tear your hair before you buy. Decent salons should stock professional combs. Some larger pharmacies & department stores also stock a good range.
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Photography: © Inga Ivanova, HadK, Kirill Mikhirev
Additional Retouching & Digital Artwork: Neil North MA.














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